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Avoiding The Unavoidable

Avoiding The Unavoidable

Are you avoiding the unavoidable? Are you putting off what continues to haunt you down? I wrote that unintentionally and turns out to be the perfect Freudian slip of the tongue to illustrate exactly what it does. It HAUNTS US DOWN… That thing we are avoiding, whether it be a conversation, a project, a mission […]

An Invitation To The Masculine

An Invitation To The Masculine

  Dear Men, Have you ever been told these words or uttered them yourself??? ~Quit your crying. ~Quit acting like a sissy. ~You wanna cry? I’ll give you a reason to cry… ~Don’t be such a baby. ~Suck it up. ~Big boys don’t cry. ~You’re fine. (even when you weren’t) or ~It’s not that bad […]

A Divine Clearing

A Divine Clearing

I just got off the ride. And I’m finding my new legs. Standing firmly on faith. A little wobbly in my ability to focus on what is before me now which is nothing. A blank canvas. A fresh start. A clean slate. No longer chasing the dream. No more running away from or towards those […]

Dear Men

Dear Men

MY MEGAPHONE TO MEN!!!  ‼ ❤️ I see you I feel you I hear what’s not being heard I embrace what’s not being held You have the right to feel confused conflicted and resigned to know what even to do or how to be Your deep down is calling for all that’s been denied disowned and disallowed […]

Fathoming The Alternative

Fathoming The Alternative

Can you stay in the room with yourself no matter what? Even if you believe that someone is mad at you including yourself? Can you not abandon the ship of your own soul with the slightest notion you did something “wrong?” Can you instead lean into the truth and prop your heart open with it? […]

In The Light Of Truth

In The Light Of Truth

Sometimes the torches we carry turn into the burdens we were never supposed to bear… I see it now. Your grief, disguised as anger. Having no way to properly express those repressed emotions. Unsure yourself why the temper flares at the smallest of things. I can’t imagine what that must have been like for you. […]

Revisiting Grief

Revisiting Grief

Grief It lives in your bones It aches more than just your heart It’s dormant fever spikes when you least expect it and you just want it to break loose from your nervous system and cellular memory so you never have to feel it again   Today a wave of infertility grief rose up in […]

Giving It All Up

Giving It All Up

I’m quitting Throwing in the towel Waving the white flag of surrender Feeling the TKO and not attaching meaning to it Moving on Letting go Removing the weight of pressure from all that I’ve been carrying Tired of shouldering responsibilities of my ego and forgoing my spirits need for peace I drop comparison and expectation […]

The Grand Illusion

The Grand Illusion

  There is no “arrival” We never truly arrive anywhere At that place That destination where you think the world will stand still Finding yourself in perfect peace Constantly and always Where you become some “enlightened being” flawless in your awareness Because if we were truly flawless in our awareness we would realize that we […]

My “Field” Trip

My “Field” Trip

I’ve been here, there and everywhere On a “field” trip Sending my soul off to camp so it can discover how to live amongst nature To inhabit the trees and make them my home To draw energy from the earth and oxygen from the sky To ask questions of the heart for all the reasons […]