Everyone will tell you how it “should” be done. All the reasons why “it’s not working” and offering you a ticket into their world of freedom. And you sometimes follow. Even more of the “rules” the ones that go against everything your spirit is telling you.
You see our spirits are very different. They don’t like cattle calls and despise being herded.
They have their own unique tone, frequency and impulse and most live in mazes and filters of things that dilute it because our human buys into this idea that someone else knows better.
Bullfuckingshit. Your path is your path. Your pulse is your pulse. And your pace is your pace.
I almost stepped in the manure myself this morning. When someone suggested as “experts” you shouldn’t be in it with them. They are looking for the way out and if they see you in it with them they’ll lack the confidence of your ability to get them out.
I call bullshit. The way out is always from the way in. And I refuse to be someone who postures and poises herself on a platform high above as though I’m some expert guru. NO. I’m not a guru nor do I claim to be an expert. I own the fact that I am human. That I too am present to life’s challenges and face them head-on. I AM in it with you. I will always meet you where you are. Affirming my ability to help because I too have been there and on different levels and in different areas, I am still figuring it out.
I don’t see this as a flaw at all. If someone comes into agreement with popular opinion of posturing, then they simply are not for me. Those I support have always appreciated and gravitated towards me because I don’t pretend or polish. And will always reveal my truth and what’s up for me. I’m not a self-made gazillionaire. YET. And ya know what. I AM a keeper of hearts. Holding them safely in the palm of the hand of the one beating it. I shine the light of compassion and radiate connection through unconditional love and gentle elements of grace that serves who I am at my core and in my essence.
I don’t buy into what entertains my ego in a seductive lure away from how I’m called to lead. Which is through raw, real, authentic truth. Many of my clients have gone on to fly higher than I currently am and isn’t that great. I believe that says a lot right there. And is something wrong with that picture? NOOO…although, I once believed it to be. Danny Terrio taught John Travolta all his moves and most don’t know who the hell he is. For you Millenials, it’s what Robin Thicke is to the likes of Usher, Pharrell, and others. Writing hit songs and lending his collaborative efforts, without getting as much of the spotlight.
Can’t it all be okay…? YES. It can. There’s a place for all of it. And there’s a place for you. Wherever your soul finds its rest. Go there. Now. And don’t listen to anyone else and their well or not so well-meaning advice. Consult with your own heart and then MOVE accordingly.
The “High on Life” Coach
*Interesting fact I found while Googling the proper spelling of Deney Terrio’s name, he grew up in the same town I lived and graduated from High School in. That’s pretty cool…I never knew!